It's not just you, I have this fear too. I'm afraid to the point where I feel like if i ever have a kid, it will be as inevitable as death or taxes, and my kid would think of me like I think of my mother. I described this phobia to my friend, and she said that just the act of me worrying about it was enough to ensure it wouldn't happen. I don't know if I buy it, but it's a start...I just thought I'd let you know you're not alone anyways.
