I'm afraid to be in a relationship and commit

by Cassy
(Canada)

I'm not sure what phobia that is, but currently the longest relationship I've ever been in was about 4 months, 2 of those I was contemplating on how I was going to dump my boyfriend.

Now I know you hear about this sort of thing all the time, "oh they can't commit they're afraid" but it's really really annoying.

I want to be happy with one person for a really long time and want to be able to consider marriage and children with that person, but it seems whenever I like someone as soon as I get in a relation with them, the "liking" feeling vanishes and usually I can't get it back.

I don't know what to do because it's honestly making me feel very flustered and making me want to stay out of a labeled relationship, just to keep the "liking" feeling there. What do I do?

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