Anxious

Hiii,I am Minu,23 yrs female...i have a typical problem.....never wants to do things late, cant bare irregularity, always curious about buying things ,always want to be perfect , dont like forgetting things, work on things continuously...if i go shopping and come home, and i realise that i forget to buy something ..i get so frustrated...wants to go back and buy that same day...finish things before time...i hate being late and all such things....due to this i always get worried and depressed..some times cry a lot and be unhappy, cant bare dirt in house and uncleaned things...!

my husband is different from me, he wants to do things slowly, dont get curious like me...takes lot of time in doing anything which is some thing i hate

what kind of phobia is this, i want to know the scientific term and suggest me what to do?